The Biggest Mistake People Make Regrading a happy Life, REAL Success And Making Money...

LIFE & Regrets are partners.. unless you are SWIFT

Most people don't understand....the real game of life is NOT about money. It's not just about the material stuff. It's really about living in an honest way that you have health, love and fun, add value to the world, leave some kind of LEGACY, and have fewest regrets, when you finally pass on. 

An Australian nurse, Bronnie Ware, spent years caring for patients in the last 12 weeks of their lives. She become aware of common themes in their dying epiphanies. so  she put her observations into her book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.

She  documents the phenomenal clarity of vision that people gain at the last days of their lives. The real power is what we could learn from their wisdom. 

"When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently," she says, "common themes surfaced again and again."

Here are the top 5 regrets of the dying:

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

"This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realize, until they no longer have it."

2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.

"This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence."

3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

"Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result."

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

"Often they would not truly realize the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying."

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

"This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realize until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again."

These are the things that matter the most, beyond money, power, prestige, ego, and arrogance.

Change your Mindset, change your Life, Change the world... Swiftly, with Love.

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